The world of BDSM has not only its own sexual acts but also its own extremely robust vocabulary.
Since all of this terminology can be intimidating to newcomers, let’s start with the basics: “BDSM” means slavery and Bondage, Desciplinesadism and masochism (or sadomasochism) with DS later interpreted as dominance (or domination) and submission – the core pillars of sudden fun.
1. BDSM IS ROOTED IN PLEASURE
When people hear about BDSM, they tend to associate it with general sadism. BDSM can be sweet, amazing, and creative. “What is lost is the understanding, the effort and the responsibility that comes with having domination or simultaneous control and the vulnerability that comes with submission.”
In a healthy BDSM relationship, all partners aim to please each other, and the Submissive sets their limits. Physical abuse is an effect that is undesirable and non-emotional, not just painful. The basis of a Sub-Dom relationship meets the needs of your partner, giving them the ultimate pleasure. There must be constant communication to make sure everything goes well and that you both enjoy it equally.
That is why caring after the love affair can be so critical. Not only is it imperative that all partners feel safe and cared for, but everyone should have a deep knowledge of each other’s boundaries, comfort levels, and sexual interests.
2. DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION ARE ALL ABOUT TRUST.
Roll-outs or safety phrases should always be available.
BDSM is only about trusting another person. Submissives often give control to the dominants. In a healthy BDSM relationship, Subs will ultimately decide when to start and stop. Carefully selected mechanisms, such as safe words, provide Submissive control.
“A safeword is a word chosen by sexual partners together and when used it means that sexual activity must stop for any reason.
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Whether you are thinking of exploring Kinky sex by diving into the world of BDSM for the first time, or you have a word “go-to safe”, entering the arena of pain and pleasure can be as sexy and healthy as you can’t imagine. As long as you are on the same page as your partners are and are willing and able to give their active consent, there is nothing wrong with experimenting as a Sub or Dom.
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